Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Just Another Foolish Story

It's far from graduation but it's one of those commencement speeches people can be raving about. It also recalls to mind the advice of our keynote speaker Fr. Joaquin Bernas, S.J.to "be daring!" during our own graduation day. =)


A foolish story:

I met two of my teachers back in high school yesterday. Despite not being as nostalgic as others may be when it comes to recalling this medieval age of my personal history, I was still happy to see them. One of them was my former English teacher who immediately recognized me, since she probably recalled me with all the stuff I wrote back then. I failed to recognize the other one until I heard her introduced herself during the meeting we were called in. Imagine my surprise to realize that she was actually my sharp but witty Religion teacher Ms. B! (She grew her hair) I was just thinking about her the other day, recalling her awesome style of teaching. (It's strange how I often think of some things only to encounter them in front of me a little later...) We talked a bit after the meeting and I had to drop the name of some famous classmate so that Ms. B could remember which batch I belonged to (yep, that's me, the wallflower). Yes, ma'am I'm working here. No ma'am I'm not married. Not today, I still like being single. Hahaha! =)

Despite the challenges, life isn't so bad...yet or after all.

I think I'm gonna write another article...

Monday, January 17, 2011

Minalabac Adveture


I love traveling!

Apart from theater arts, fine arts, fashion design, interior design, digital illustration and animation, and long before Psychology was introduced to us in Career Day during my last year in high school, I had also considered taking up Tourism as my course. 

Last year was favorable for the traveler in me. I got the chance to go on an eco-tour in Culion, Palawan, stay in a five-star hotel, immerse in Calabanga with their harvest of watermelons and crabs, visit the people and rice fields of Sagnay and camp in the white shores of Calaguas, Camarines Norte – all courtesy of doing my job and being with equally enthusiastic colleagues.  It doesn’t hurt to have been in Samar, Leyte, Cebu and particularly Bohol where I got my first sight of a white sand beach underneath the full bright moon. (I know, I sound conceited and cheesy in this part, hehe). I hope to visit Mindanao at least before going overboard with dreams of going abroad. There’s still so much to see in the Philippines and the desire to go or even work abroad is not that strong, at least, not yet.  

Taking into account what I have been up to for the last five years, I realized I haven’t done so much of the things I used to really love. Apart from reading fiction and drawing, I hadn’t grabbed the chance to go to other places, despite my love for travelling. I didn’t join the educational trip in sophomore year, couldn’t afford to join the PAPJA convention in third year, and many other mini-trips that I had considered rather costly and would take time that could have been spent on studies, responsibilities and friends. I turned to people instead of just books for a change, surrounded with happy, talented and responsible individuals and thought of others instead of me, myself and I.

Though a certified city girl by heart, visiting municipalities around Camarines Sur can invite one to take a second look on rural life and learn what kind of culture and mindset prevail among its people. Once, for a research paper in Filipino Psychology class regarding the famous parahilots of Magarao, my groupmates and I confirmed the fact that western approaches on data gathering are not appropriate for the local setting. The secrets of their ‘trade’ could not just be asked through structured interviews and questionnaires alone.  We had to avail for a massage that would relieve us from any ailment we were experiencing (though the famous parahilot Ligid in the town merely advised one groupmate to find a man). 

Rains, Roads and Rocks*
The itinerary for this year starts with yesterday’s trip to Minalabac in search for an area to conduct a photography workshop. After asking a couple of strangers which between Barangay Salingogon and Barangay Bagolatao provided less road difficulty and driving through hills and trees, we finally arrived at the pebbled shores of Minalabac. Instead of sand, big and small light-colored stones littered the shoreline, with small waves of water calmly moving towards land. Though the place was not quite as majestic as Caramoan or Culion, one can definitely swim in the waters without worrying about being swept away into the ocean. Plus, the stones made a difference and added to its subtle but unique charm. My boss (an avid photographer, traveler, and mountaineer) couldn’t help but take photographs of the view and the people and we ourselves couldn’t help but be his subjects. It was too bad that the weather couldn’t spare us a bit of light, not to mention the fact I completely forgot to bring my own camera (palm to the forehead!). 


 Shots taken by Fr. Ritche B. Elot using Kuya Sonny's Nikon D3100., Title Rains, Roads and Rocks courtesy of Sonny SB. Virtus, Jr.

Oh well, more places to go in the future. I’ve heard of other places we can still go to, hopefully with some pieces of artifacts and history next time. There isn’t much extensive information in the net or anywhere else regarding other possible destinations in Bicol that can draw locals as well as foreigners to travel in here. Any recommendations regarding hotspots (how to get there, who can be contacted, what food should we try, and so on) are very much welcome. Isn’t it about time to know more about our own?

 

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Year-End Highlights

COUNTDOWN TO 2011. In an orderly fashion, here are some highlights for the year 201. No bitterness or sadness; just a lot of BIG surprises. 0_o

JANUARY
The much-needed peace came to me in 2009, so for 2010, I prayed for balance – which I incidentally read in the book/movie eat pray love months later. Another resolve for that year was to restore things that were lost. That included the bubbly, wacko and ambitious me. No point wallowing in self-pity when one's got a lot of other things to live for, right?

January 22 – I don't keep track of famous people I meet but still, meeting CNN Hero Efren Penaflorida is pretty cool. With him was also the Cebu Provincial Detention and Rehabilitation Chief Byron Garcia who posted the popular viral video of the dancing Cebu Inmates online. Just like when I stared (more like drooled) at Chris Tiu from afar last year when he came to AdNU, I was at loss for words to initiate even small talk with these people.

FEBRUARY
February 20 – the beginning of a series of celebration to mark the 70th Foundation of Ateneo de Naga University was marked by a concert with performances from the Ateneo University Band, University Choir and a foreign violinist.

MARCH
The first A-WILL on Missioning-Visioning. Fairly easier to conduct than the usual A-WILL which usually required the student leaders to stay overnight but gruesome preparations were still needed. Topics included were creating/realigning the mission, vision, goals and objectives of the organization and managing and evaluating activities. A lot of people may not fully appreciate needs such as an articulated mission-vision, but having these can give the members a sense of order and purpose; a foundation for conceptualizing activities and measuring whether the org is accomplishing anything it was intended for.

Of course, in order to harness these skills one needs to practice, practice, practice. Makes me proud of being orderly and critical when it comes to details…at least, for most of the time. >=)

March 9 – Mariano Reis Baesa (+)

APRIL
April 5-9 – Five-day Silent Individually-directed Retreat @ Sacred Heart Novitiate, Quezon City. Hit the play button for the song No Sound but the Wind by Editors here…

April 13-17 FSSO GGA: Culion, Palawan! If last year's group growth activity offered us the chance to go snorkeling for corals in the islands of Caramoan, the formation offices now headed southwest of the country to the place once called the "Land of the Living Dead". Formerly the Leprosy Center of the Philippines since the Spanish Period, this place is now a promising [eco] tourist destination, if you don't mind traveling first on land, air and water. 
Places to stay: Isla Culion Hotel Maya
Sights to See:

View from Kayangan Lake



Crib in the Leprosarium Museum
  • 17th century church where a Jesuit beloved to the locals is buried inside
  • Loyola College of Culion
  • The Leprosarium Museum of Culion built in the early 1900s
  • San Ignacio Farm
  •  Pulang Lup
  • Agila Hike
  • Kayangan Lake
  • Twin Peak
  •  and many more!
MAY
May 10 – the First Automated Election in the Philippines wherein Benigno "Noynoy" Aquino III won.  

May 18-23 – Summer A-WILL: Beyond Borders.
(A four-day workshop-seminar BUT NOW WITH a two-day immersion in the community)
With my first boss leaving, the vacated position split into two and two new bosses appointed to the directorship, this was an even greater challenge than last year's Summer A-WILL (back then, I had less than a month to prepare since I took the job in mid-April and the seminar-workshop was scheduled on the latter half of May). But by some luck and with staff and students willing enough to extend their time and efforts to become community workers for at least two days, the seminar-workshop was a success.

A memory of this activity I shall never forget: crossing a dark watermelon field at night with some student volunteers and barangay officials just to make sure the student leaders scattered all over a barangay in Calabanga were fine in their foster homes. Don't tell mom I did that. ;)

JUNE
June 5 – Soundtrek: The Platinum Edition! Tapped the student organizations to conduct their Income Generating Projects while the music played and the crowd swayed. No head banging and no Foundation Anniversary Ball for our office, though. =p

June 19 – Tree planting at the Forest of Hope @ Pacol, Naga City. Out of the five seedlings I planted, who will survive?

June 30 – Inauguration of P-Noy.

JULY
July 19 – SONA Conversations with Live Viewing of P-Noy's SONA. Maybe a coffee-table discussion after the talk to keep the audience in their seats next time? More interesting and interactive but I wonder if it would work…

July 23 – National Voluntary Blood Services Program – Bicol Medical Center Blood Program Network: Zonal Recognition and Fellowship Night at Starmark Royale
Three things I've learned so far: 1) Invest in formal attire 2) Do not bring a jacket 3) Condition yourself bring only a purse and survive with what fits in it.

July 31 – 200 bleed and become Dugong Atenista Blood Donors!

AUGUST
August 13 – Dugong Atenista Processing Session: Tribute to Blood Donors. It is always a challenge to attract people to come to an event, more so when we are talking about getting shy students to talk to strangers and in crowds about their feelings, thoughts and insights. What else can we do? Rename the activity, emphasize the needs and benefits of donating blood and invite regular blood donors from the student body, faculty, staff and administration to share their personal experiences and reflections.

August 30-31 – yPeace at Hyatt Hotel, Manila
Sponsored by the Public Office Section of the US Embassy, yPeace or YouthAID gathers youth leaders from different institutions, government and non-government organizations to talk about religious pluralism and create civic action interfaith programs in their respective communities.




Side Trips: AdMU, MOA








SEPTEMBER

Bicol celebrates its 300 Years of Devotion to Ina (Our Lady of Penafrancia)



September 11 – the most beautiful voices are heard again as the Philippine Madrigal Singers return to serenades us once more…

September 9-10 BACS: Dolot ki Ina 2010 in AdNU.



OCTOBER
September 30-October 1 – Enneagram Retreat. Dos-Siete!


October 26-28 – Characteristics of Jesuit Education (with Sir Rosendo Badilla, Gregorio Abonal and Fr. Alberto Alejo, S.J. as our speakers)

NOVEMBER
November 6-7 – OSA GGA: Calaguas Island, Camarines Norte.
Riding a smaller boat compared to the ones we rode in Palawan and Caramoan actually makes a huge difference in experiencing the force of the waves. Challenges include testing our survival skills in tent making, cooking corned beef in an hour, literary eating sand in sandwich, and posing like the castaways of "Lost."

I think I'll never get tired of going to the beach. The wide horizon beyond tells you what a wide world it is.



November 30 – 227 Blood Donors for Dugong Atenista!

DECEMBER
December 16-17 – Teacher-Counselor Training 2.
Needs to get a hang of Solution-focused therapy/approach to cure me from my obsolete in-depth study counseling technique.

Partey-Partey!
December 19 – AdNU Institutional Christmas Party: El Ultimo with Primo @ The Tent, Avenue Square
December 15 – OSA Christmas Party @ Bob Marlin
December 28
·         Psychology Batch 2009 Get together @ Molino
·         Peer Counselors Reunion @ Music Box

I'm pretty sure I missed a lot of important events that ought to be included in the list, but over-all 2010 was very enriching in experience. Will I be as productive and happy for 2011? These things often make me very apprehensive of the future but I've got to remind myself to remain in the present. There has to be a way. If I found out otherwise, well, at least I know how to pray. Fingers crossed!

Some photos courtesy of Atty. Jo Cabiles (Culion, Palawan) and Fr. Ritche Elot (Calaguas OSA Group Picture).

Monday, January 3, 2011

Greetings, Earthlings!

First things first, Happy New Year Everyone! =)

It’s been quite a while since I posted anything this extensive online but this doesn’t mean I’ve stopped writing – just taking my time to throw out a lot of unnecessary works, polish my skills and put order in my mind (which will hopefully reflect in this new blog I’ve created).

Making this has not been easy and quick. Sometimes an idea can pop out of nowhere, needs to be written down before it can be lost and must be deliberated whether it’s really worth pursuing or not. Apart from time-consuming details like creating tags and titles to be used and figuring out codes to manipulate templates, security and privacy settings are not to be taken lightly as people sue each other due to a lack of online ethics.

That’s just the tip of the iceberg. The question is really this: why do I write? What do I write? Whom do I write for?

I won’t attempt to answer those queries right away. Let the words unravel themselves in time.